" NAY PYI TAW http://www.pittsburghpenguinsteamstore.com/adidas-larry-murphy-jersey , Dec. 15 (Xinhua) -- The final day of the boxing event marks a great crowd that swarmed to flood the Boxing stadium inside Wunna Theikdi Sports Complex, Nay Pyi Taw on Saturday. There were six women bouts of different weight categories while there are eight men bouts of eight weight categories. Bouts are heated amid the uproarious crowd of home fans as no stadium except for football can host such crowd in Myanmar.
The finals saw Thailand taking most gold medals and Philippines following the third with three golds for men and women bouts.
""My opponent (Indonesia's Beatrix Suguro) is so aggressive that it was very hard to reach her,"" Philippines' female gold medalist Josie Gabuco told Xinhua after the 48 kg bout.
This is her fourth SEA Games and her fourth gold medal that she clinched the first time for 48 kg weight category as she obtained previous other for 46 kg bouts.
Myanmar did not excel in number of golds but two golds medals won by Nwe Ni Oo of women 57 kg bout and Wai Lin Aung of 75 kg responded well to the support and cheers of the home fans.
Humble Nwe Ni Oo defeated overconfident Philippina Nesthey Petecio as her machine-gun punches repulsed Petecio's daring assaults many of the times.
Over 6000 athletes and officials from 11 ASEAN countries participate in the biggest biennial tournament of the region.
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